Bill and Pam's Speaking Topics


	Bill & Pam's Topics: These are Pam and Bill’s most asked for messages. They can adapt and dovetail a message perfect for your group. Messages for Couples: Men are like Waffles, Women are like Spaghetti From their best selling book by the same title, these 4 messages take a humorous and practical look at basic gender differences. The audience will learn 4 tools to build a bridge to one another that will make these differences work for their marriages. The four messages are entitled: Men and Women Relate Differently Men and Women Relieve Stress Differently Men and Women Resolve Conflict Differently Men and Women Romance Differently Pure Pleasure: How to keep L.i.f.e. in Your Love: Couples are looking for simple ways to stay in love. In this four message seminar, Bill and Pam help couples learn practical ways to apply basic relationship skills. The audience will learn how to practically live out the following acrostic: Love Unconditionally Invest Strategically with Communication Forgive Deliberately Encourage Lavishly Marriage in the Whirlwind The pace of life is very fast for modern couples. They want to stay in love but they are having difficulty finding time to invest in their marriage. As a result, a couple’s skills must be efficient if they are going to keep up with life and keep up with each other. Marriage in the Whirlwind presents a plan for building efficient skills that will help hold a couple together when the world is pulling them apart. Love to Love You Fan the Flame on love with some tips from the Song of Solomon. This series of messages are fun as they focus on building a romantic focus in marriage. Why Men and Women Act the Way They Do There are a variety of reasons why men and women act the way they do. Gender, family influence, the impact of culture and a personal relationship with Jesus profoundly affect who we are and how we live our lives. In this series of messages we help couples explore the most prevalent influences in our relationships. The audience will discover practical ways to live with, and laugh at, the differences. The four messages are entitled: The Heart of the Matter The Heart of a Woman The Heart of a Man The Heart’s Desire This material can also be presented in a shortened version entitled; Why Did You Do That? Messages for Singles: Single Men are like Waffles, Single Women are like Spaghetti Based on the book by the same title, Bill and Pam interact with singles on how to adjust to gender differences while maximizing their own lives. We explore with singles the dynamics of their most important relationships—a relationship with God, co-workers, friends, family members and romantic interests. The focus of these messages is on making life more effective in all areas. This material can also be presented in a shortened version entitled; Relationships 101: People Skills for success in life, leadership and love Messages for Leaders (all the above plus): Ministry-Minded Marriages Marriages that minister to others have unique stresses. There are additional time pressures, emotional strains and life management challenges. At the same time, there are unique joys of seeing lives changed. As a result, there are some skills that are unique to ministry-minded marriages. In this series of messages, Bill and Pam encourage those who serve others. Messages for Family Conferences: Parents have an intense desire to raise kids who love God, love to learn and love to lead in their own sphere of influence. In all of our family seminars, we dialogue with parents about how to practically accomplish these goals. We challenge parents to be deliberate in their parenting efforts rather than just do what comes to mind. These messages can be presented in any of these formats: The Treasure of Your Family Your Family: A Winning Team Families in the Fast Lane: Winning Ways in the Whirlwind of Life